A genuine Story!!

Thought of the Day!!

Seeing the present scenario the tension escalating between India & Pakistan everyone is worried , praying that things come back to normal. Life becomes peaceful again. People are as usual started showing their E anger ,concerns, worries , anguish or even pain to the world through electronic media.. Which also includes blaming the government , holding them responsible..

But what about Fauji wives who are the silent spectator, watching the world speculating war like situation. They are not allowed to share any kind of emotion to the world. They are not allowed to share any information or concern about their husbands’ to anyone. They are not even allowed to upload a pic on digital world if their husband is wearing a uniform. The same uniform in which a soldier looks the best & his family feels proud of him. But ya! this is life meant for a Fauji wife.

Incase of tense situation ,they are so many instructions passed as what needs to be done incase of an attack takes place. They need to look calm & sound normal in front of their children even though worrying about their husbands’ well being is tearing them apart from within. The uncertainty hovering  constantly day & night whether the dear hubby will come back home safe & sound. Anticipating dreamily & hoping that he 'll be back before the kids result comes out or before that family function or the school reunion which he is so looking forward to attend. Fauji wives are not even allowed to show happiness & celebrate a victory to anyone in which their brave hearts have taken part or led the action.

When a girl decides to marry a soldier the package of worries, fears & separation comes along. She knows he means world to her, but for him his nation & duty will always come first without any doubt. The stoic smiling face becomes part of life while battling her inner fears & emotions.

The best thing a fauji wife does , when the husband is fighting in the front against the enemy for the nation , she keeps his world intact for him at home. So when he returns, he can enjoy his share of happiness meant for him as being born in this world.

Even they are allowed to enjoy this amazing life a bit!! Don’t you think!!

Sorrow's story!!

To enjoy the morning glory

I opened the window 

While admiring the beauty 

Observed someone’s shadow!!

Bent under a gloomy cloud

She hid her face

Trying to conceal her Identity 

Lurked in a corner, as if debase!!

She looks dreadful &remains abstain!

Consciously, she stays aloof

As nobody welcomes her 

Under their roof!!

I walked up to her

To shower love & care

With compassion to know

What brings her here? 

She looked up 

With frightening eyes

The pain within

Unable to disguise!!

Oh! It’s Sorrow

The unloved child

Forbidden to enter, the cheerful world

As for everyone, she is defiled!

Is it my fault to born this way?

Discarded, forsaken she looked Irate

Why disbarred from warmth of world

As I have not chosen my fate!!

Army the best!!

Thought of the Day..

Whenever we witness any terror attack especially the ones in recent past our blood boils. We feel like picking up the gun eliminating each & every person who think, plan these horrible attacks or executes them. During such times as a nation we all come together at once ,whether its candle march, silent prayers or burning public properties to show our agitation. But then what next ? We slowly go back to our routine lives ,falling back to mundane chores.

 Our Indian army never told us to behave like this. When they lose their brother officer or jawan they put up the brave face in front of the world. The one with whom they shared a tea ,sang a song or just exchanged the smile , suddenly lies lifeless on the floor in front of them. Don’t they feel angry, frustrated or sometimes even helpless. They don’t show their anger in the same manner the way we do, knowing their pain must be much bigger than ours or even the family who lost the only earning member. So what should we do? Just keep on showing our E anger or  burn candles outside our houses. We all look for a solution or some miracle to take place.

Why we should not think of putting our children in the army? Why not from early age we teach our children to join army as the best profession & not keeping it as one of the option. What if we encourage our daughters & sons to join army. Think ! If in our country a member from each family joins army ?Without any discrimination rich, poor or north – south. What if joining army becomes mandatory? Our politicians decides to pass some kind of Act or resolution in the parliament to join army & making it compulsory. But why make everything mandatory. Why not things become willingly. If we have so much of anger within us which we show willingly then why not joining army becomes a strong willing effort.

We all can think about it & not keep it in some closet of our mind.

Life's Journey!!

Life’s journey

Tiresome & woozy!!

Umpteen hurdles to pass

Surplus advices to surpass

Look beyond the frightening sight,

Acres of Land with full of spite..

Love & warmth , in thy heart has dried

Night after night I sat & cried..

Venomous greed , paralysed our thought

Hardship battles within , are yet to fought!

Inner turmoil , torture the goodness

Senseless attitude brings out the wickedness..

One day arrives an angelic soul,

A heart full of purity & gold..

Harmony will return !

Life ‘ll be joyous again!

Her words rebound with clarity..

I look in her eyes to assure me

Trusting she holds the magic key..

The secret Ingredient

Thought of the Day

It is very important for the married couples to have ‘US’ time. Now everybody might wonder what is ‘us’ time. In today’s time we all are busy meeting with our deadlines, illness, looking after children or facing some kind of challenge. The institution of marriage or living a relaxed married life takes a backseat. We read so many articles on spending time together to rekindle the joy of marriage or taking out time for self relaxation blah blah... But as soon as we read these articles we quickly forget what is written, by the time we fold the newspaper or close the magazine. Keeping everything away in some closet of our mind.

All married couples face accusations ,pointing fingers ,blame games etc from their beloved spouses & soon this becomes part of life. They don’t even realise how time changes, the journey from happily married couple to tolerating each other couple. This all happens when ‘US’ time is missing from the life. So now I would like to explain what is it? ‘ THE US TIME’.

It means whatever the situation is, as a couple one needs to find time & sit together even for an hour whenever possible . There are small small things in daily routine which puts of our spouse unintentionally. They can be minor things which may be harmless for a moment but such things when accumulated over a period of time causes trouble in married life. It stretches the relationship to such a length that staying with the once beloved spouse becomes unbearable. So why wait for that moment when we start seeking help outside the marriage or discuss the relationship with everyone other then the beloved spouse. From beginning only if we start ‘US’ time practice , future harm can be controlled. But important thing in ‘US TIME’ is to hear out your spouse patiently. Without being judgemental or throwing your opinion. Sometimes venting out is more important to reduce stress in life .It will help in building a stronger relationship.

Waiting for you!!

Wait

In the mean time ,

I wait for you..

Their is so much hassle ..

No strength left to fight the hassle..

In the mean time

I still wait for you..

Everyday chores become Strenuous

Wish! Life can be less Pretentious

Someone help in this passing phase

Wish! In the crowd I could still see your face..

In the mean time 

I still wait for you..

Life is not exciting

Nothing looks brightening..

Every hour seems frightening

As death stands beside me

Tightening its grip around me

Its too late , no one can help me

I accepted my fate as destined to me..