Thought of the Day!!
Seeing the present scenario the tension escalating between India & Pakistan everyone is worried , praying that things come back to normal. Life becomes peaceful again. People are as usual started showing their E anger ,concerns, worries , anguish or even pain to the world through electronic media.. Which also includes blaming the government , holding them responsible..
But what about Fauji wives who are the silent spectator, watching the world speculating war like situation. They are not allowed to share any kind of emotion to the world. They are not allowed to share any information or concern about their husbands’ to anyone. They are not even allowed to upload a pic on digital world if their husband is wearing a uniform. The same uniform in which a soldier looks the best & his family feels proud of him. But ya! this is life meant for a Fauji wife.
Incase of tense situation ,they are so many instructions passed as what needs to be done incase of an attack takes place. They need to look calm & sound normal in front of their children even though worrying about their husbands’ well being is tearing them apart from within. The uncertainty hovering constantly day & night whether the dear hubby will come back home safe & sound. Anticipating dreamily & hoping that he 'll be back before the kids result comes out or before that family function or the school reunion which he is so looking forward to attend. Fauji wives are not even allowed to show happiness & celebrate a victory to anyone in which their brave hearts have taken part or led the action.
When a girl decides to marry a soldier the package of worries, fears & separation comes along. She knows he means world to her, but for him his nation & duty will always come first without any doubt. The stoic smiling face becomes part of life while battling her inner fears & emotions.
The best thing a fauji wife does , when the husband is fighting in the front against the enemy for the nation , she keeps his world intact for him at home. So when he returns, he can enjoy his share of happiness meant for him as being born in this world.
Even they are allowed to enjoy this amazing life a bit!! Don’t you think!!
6 comments:
The warrior’s wife keeps the home fires burning and his world the same whenever he comes back. Salute to her
Salute to Military wives
Karuna👧 .....this is well penned down.
I was not aware that you write too
Nicely Expressed
Very nice one Karuna .It is around the Fauji wife that their whole world functions. Proud of you . Karan and Meenakshi Yadava
You are a great person, brave wife, confident mother and articulate.
God bless you.
Dear Karuna,
You have penned the most apt,Innermost feelings,that besot,the minds of fauji wives.
If its tough for the fauji to do go on his mission,its equally tougher for the fauji wife to exhibit nerves of steel.
She exhibits a stoic silence,a perrineal smile,goes about her daily routine of hearth n home, in trying to enthuse confidence n increasing will power in the minds n psyche of the rest of the fauji wives.
Hats off to.u for takinv on this onerous task.
We all.stand by you n every one else.
God Bless.
Just shout n we all.are there with you in this endevour.
Dr Amita Bahl
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