Thought of the Day
It is very important for the married couples to have ‘US’ time. Now everybody might wonder what is ‘us’ time. In today’s time we all are busy meeting with our deadlines, illness, looking after children or facing some kind of challenge. The institution of marriage or living a relaxed married life takes a backseat. We read so many articles on spending time together to rekindle the joy of marriage or taking out time for self relaxation blah blah... But as soon as we read these articles we quickly forget what is written, by the time we fold the newspaper or close the magazine. Keeping everything away in some closet of our mind.
All married couples face accusations ,pointing fingers ,blame games etc from their beloved spouses & soon this becomes part of life. They don’t even realise how time changes, the journey from happily married couple to tolerating each other couple. This all happens when ‘US’ time is missing from the life. So now I would like to explain what is it? ‘ THE US TIME’.
It means whatever the situation is, as a couple one needs to find time & sit together even for an hour whenever possible . There are small small things in daily routine which puts of our spouse unintentionally. They can be minor things which may be harmless for a moment but such things when accumulated over a period of time causes trouble in married life. It stretches the relationship to such a length that staying with the once beloved spouse becomes unbearable. So why wait for that moment when we start seeking help outside the marriage or discuss the relationship with everyone other then the beloved spouse. From beginning only if we start ‘US’ time practice , future harm can be controlled. But important thing in ‘US TIME’ is to hear out your spouse patiently. Without being judgemental or throwing your opinion. Sometimes venting out is more important to reduce stress in life .It will help in building a stronger relationship.
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